Attractiveness means that a woman has the time and desire to present her virtues in the most favorable light and hide her flaws. An attractive woman is always good. Remember, men are attracted to what they see, not what they really are. A woman's physical attractiveness is directly related to her health, which is why this criterion is so important for men. When a mature woman dresses beautifully and applies makeup skillfully, she is considered attractive, when in fact she simply imitated the appearance and behavior of a young woman capable of childbearing. Most women understand this very well. Manufacturers of cosmetics, weight loss products, clothing and exercise equipment promise consumers that their products and services will help them meet male criteria for choosing partners.
Psychologist Paul Rosen conducted an experiment in which he figured out the male and female ideas about the ideal female figure. He showed the participants photographs of women, from very thin to very fat. Without exception, all women called the slender ladies attractive and said that they would like to look like that themselves. Men, on the other hand, named women of medium build as the most attractive. This proves that modern women are mistaken, believing that men love thin people. All over the world, men prefer women of medium to full build, whose figures resemble an hourglass - we will talk about why this happens later.
Professor Donald Simone of the Department of Anthropology at the University of California at Santa Barbara was one of the first to notice that in countries where food is plentiful, such as the United States, men are more attracted to slender women. Where food is scarce, men value obese women more. He found that the food-related mental state plays the main role in this, not the food itself.
Expose the Amazons
To attract the attention of men, women from some tribes in Africa and the Amazon go topless and wear belts that resemble thongs. Women of the civilized world are shocked by this approach, but in fact they attract their men in much the same way. They use makeup to keep their skin looking smooth and healthy. Mascara makes their eyes look bigger, lipstick mimics the rush of blood to the lips, dyed hair is a sign of youthfulness and high estrogen levels. With the help of plastic surgeons, women make their faces look young and attractive. Modern women wear clever bras, miniskirts, nylon stockings, high-heeled shoes and inject themselves with Botox to get rid of wrinkles. And all this in order to seem attractive to men who always prefer young and healthy partners. This explains the fact that men fall in love faster than women: visual signals are recognized instantly.
We are not at all encouraging women to abandon such tricks. We're just explaining why they need them.
What Men Think Handsome
Animals have no concept of beauty. A dog, cat or elephant never admires the sunset, Monet's paintings or waterfalls. There are no ugly monkeys, cats or horses. In the animal kingdom, the attractiveness of a female is determined unambiguously - if she is in heat, then she is attractive.
People define the beauty of the world around them based on the experience of their ancestors. We consider a painting or photograph to be beautiful when it imitates something that belongs to the world in which our ancestors lived: water, animals, weather, conflict and joy.
Men evaluate a woman's physical beauty to get an idea of her fertility. Desirable traits include smooth skin, healthy and shiny hair, good muscle tone, clear eyes, and an energetic gait, all of which are indicative of youth and health and therefore a high reproductive value.
Cosmetics shampoos, conditioners, creams and scrubs help a woman to look attractive. From an evolutionary point of view, young, healthy women can give birth to more children, and therefore, it is better to preserve the genetic heritage of a man. Consequently, clean women all over the world are considered more attractive than dirty women, because dirt is always associated with illness, and illness reduces the offspring's chances of survival.
Professor Randy Thornhill, an evolutionary biologist at the University of New Mexico, conducted an experiment in which he asked men and women to rate the attractiveness of female faces in photographs. The faces of mature women appeared less attractive to both sexes, with men giving them lower grades than women. This shows that women instinctively understand how this principle works, and explains why facelifts are so popular.
Cravings for beautiful faces are innate.
In 2003, Judith Langlois and her colleagues at the University of Texas at Austin proved that human cravings for beautiful faces are innate, and not learned through upbringing, as previously thought. She showed pictures of different people to babies 2-3 months old and toddlers 6-8 months old. It turned out that both groups looked at more attractive faces longer. In a second experiment, Judith invited one-year-olds to play with dolls that had a variety of faces. It turned out that children played with beautiful dolls longer and smiled at them more often.
When a man looks at a picture of a nude model in Playboy, he does not think about whether she can cook, play the piano, and whether she is a good person.
Scientists have experimentally proven that there is a universal formula for beauty. Almost all over the world the criterion of beauty is the same. The more symmetrical a woman's face is, the more attractive it appears. As we age, facial symmetry breaks down, making younger faces appear more attractive.
What Turns Men On - 70% Waist to Hip Ratio
Nature itself tuned men to search for such a ratio - that is, a figure resembling an hourglass. Women with this figure are considered the most fertile and most likely to conceive. This ratio is used in almost any advertisement where women sell products to men. This ratio attracts male attention even when the woman weighs more than she should. 70 percent is more important than real weight. This ratio indicates fertility and a high fat content (which is deposited mainly in the thighs), which is necessary for breastfeeding a baby.
In general, men love those parts of the female body that are not like their own. Where the woman is convex, the man is flat. Where hers is soft, he is hard. So when it comes to physical differences, opposites do attract.
What men don't like about women
Women who constantly complain about the imperfection of their own bodies are very much disliked by men. Here are some examples:
"My legs are too thick."
"My ass is too big."
"I was tortured by cellulite."
"I'm too fat / tall / small."
"My hair is too fine / oily / dry."
"I'm getting wrinkles."
"My chest is too small / flat / ugly."
"I hate my stretch marks / fat belly."
When a man is attracted to a woman, he focuses on her physical virtues and ignores her flaws. When he looks after, invites to dinner and entertains a woman in every possible way, dopamine and other hormones are released in his brain. In such a situation, he does not see a single flaw, even if it objectively exists.
When it comes to women, men become very primitive creatures. They are annoyed not by the size and shape of the female body, but by the woman's lack of confidence in her own attractiveness. In 2008, a study was conducted in Australia in which girls between the ages of 13 and 28 took part. 86% of them were dissatisfied with their appearance and were ready for anything, including plastic surgery, just to become more beautiful. Modern men are tired of such conversations and simply do not pay attention to them. When a man is attracted to a woman, stretch marks on her stomach seem tender and sexy to him, big hips are seductive, and thin hair is the perfect hairstyle. But a woman who talks about her shortcomings immediately becomes unattractive. It’s very simple.
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What attracts men to a woman's appearance? Female attractiveness consists of two components: external and internal. Of course, the first thing men pay attention to is their appearance, who would argue. But what is visual appeal, what are its criteria? Here the opinions of the representatives of the stronger sex differ. Let's find out more about them.Men like women with big breasts, mouth-watering round ass, long legs. These are signs of sex appeal. Any of them will pay attention to such a woman, instinct works here.
A bright, sexy appearance is important for a quick romance, a short love affair. But for a long, serious relationship, men choose something else. There are already other criteria here. What are they?
According to the representatives of the stronger sex, a woman should pay attention to her appearance, be neat and well-groomed. But here's the paradox: at the same time, they believe that the beloved should not spend too much time in front of the mirror. They want to think that her attractiveness is natural. Well, almost.
Conclusion: we will spend as much time in front of the mirror as necessary, but we will try to do this not in front of a man.
Plays an important role, it should be light, graceful, flying.
An important feature of female attractiveness is a thin waist. If you have wide hips, but at the same time a thin waist, then the representatives of the stronger sex like you, no matter how many kilograms you have. According to doctors, such a ratio of figure parameters suggests that a woman is able to bear a pregnancy well and give birth to healthy offspring. Men feel it instinctively.
They also like girls and ladies with long hair, that's a fact.
But too revealing outfits scare them (we are talking about those who are aimed at a serious relationship). No, of course, there should be elements of sexuality in clothes, but they should be presented subtly, unobtrusively. Let the clothes only hint at what is hidden under it.
As you can see, it is not so difficult to be feminine and attractive in appearance. And in order to be loved, character traits are much more important!
What do they like about being a woman?
Representatives of the stronger sex highly value charm, femininity and sensuality. As the saying goes, "a shy woman for others, a libertine for her husband."
Also men like smart women. This does not mean erudition or rational intelligence. We are talking about worldly wisdom, men highly value it. But at the same time, the beloved should be able to create the impression that the man is smarter than her.
A positive attitude is very important. A man is happy when next to him is a bright, radiant woman who warms his life, inspires him with confidence, is able to be support in difficult times. When her eyes shine with joy, she is always attractive!
Representatives of the stronger sex highly value honesty and decency. Any lie is revealed sooner or later. In many cases, this means the end of the relationship.
All of them mark such a quality as kindness. They understand it as taking care of themselves, as well as the ability to forgive, be indulgent, accept the shortcomings of a loved one. They like it when a woman has flexibility, knows how to adapt to her chosen one, is able to listen, calm down.
Men like women with easy character. Traits such as openness, sincerity, friendliness, optimism are appreciated. Many people report having a sense of humor. You won't get bored with such a woman, you get pleasure from her company, they say.
Oddly enough, they like independent women who do not lose heart, but are able to calmly solve their problems. Of course, a loved one can turn to him for help, and he will gladly provide it. But do not abuse it, do not constantly take the pose of "young lady in trouble", it gets tired.
And what turns them off?
First, about the appearance. Men consider the following serious shortcomings: sloppy clothes, loose, unclean skin, a blurry, untightened figure, gaudy screaming makeup, dirty hair,. Men hate it when a woman smells of sweat.
Most of them do not tolerate women who smoke and drink (also those who go with a bottle of beer). In their view, this is incompatible with the ability to give birth to healthy offspring and be a good mother.
As for character, they are repelled by the following traits. They do not like nervous, suspicious representatives of the fairer sex, constantly worrying about trifles and making a tragedy out of everything. If she constantly whines, complains, is unhappy with everything, then the man will try to stay away from her.
They are also repulsed by women who strive for superiority, argue all the time, trying to prove their case.
And they are also annoyed by constant conversations about (especially when it remains at the level of conversations, and really nothing is done for this).
What kind of women do men like? Many women dress stylishly and tastefully, hold themselves confidently, showy, educated, interesting in communication, but at the same time they can scare men away. And in others, seemingly nondescript, "gray mice" and "blue stockings", as if a beacon of attractiveness is laid, men flock to them like bees for honey! Paradox, but the fact is, what is the reason?
The answer to this question is given by a professional matchmaker with 10 years of experience. Tatiana Tasueva in the book "How and where to find a real prince", published by the EKSMO publishing house. In her opinion, the reason, neither more nor less, in the internal setting of a woman... The stronger sex reads the female behavior scenario quickly and almost accurately. They immediately understand: loneliness is a woman's choice, no matter whether conscious or unconscious, "in fact, she doesn't need a relationship," "something is wrong with her, and she doesn't need anyone." This understanding comes at the level of non-verbal communication.
Therefore, before starting a relationship with the man of your dreams, tune in to a positive mood, make your "electric field" positive, get ready to be an enchantress! So in Russia they called women who are capable of charming, bewitching, bewitching men, "twisting ropes", forcing them to indulge all women's whims, give expensive gifts and, of course, their love without a trace.
This is called female magic. You say: unreal, for the lucky few? Not at all: female magic is available to any woman. We just don’t even know that it’s magic, we don’t notice that we use it every day. Our inner strength is deeply embedded within each of us, it just needs to be awakened!
Of course, any self-respecting modern man wants a "quality person" next to him. He knows his own worth and values in a woman above all:
1. Attractiveness
So it was, is and always will be. Men are visuals, next to an attractive, feminine lady. They are very proud when the beauty of a friend is noticed by others, they are already inflated with overwhelming pride. Men generally listen very much to the opinions of others, especially friends ... Therefore, a woman should (regardless of age, social status and wallet thickness) always look good, not only for him, but also for herself, so that she would not be ashamed to appear in society and it was pleasant to communicate at home. Do not chase world standards, be yourself.
2. Sexuality
In sex, you have to match each other. It is desirable that you have the same temperament. If your temperament is brighter - it's okay (adjust!), If he has - you should be on your guard. By the way, many men prefer "calm" ladies, they think that such a wife will be a model of loyalty.
3. Mind
It is much easier to conquer, even beat off a man than to keep him, all the more to build a harmonious family with him. To do this, you need to keep your husband, so to speak, in good shape. You will need intelligence, cunning, and ingenuity.
4. Independence
Men prefer independent women, they can take care of a woman, but at the same time they assume that she herself is able to stand firmly on her feet. A strong, independent woman, but at the same time one that you want to take care of, feeling like a man - this is the ideal wife. Sometimes men themselves want to cry into their vests, but this is extremely rare.
5. Respect for a man
This means giving him the opportunity to be a man! To be able to listen and take into account his opinion, never humiliate him (even if he is younger and is lower in the career ladder). Do not make scenes in public, in front of friends and family.
6. Love
Everyone wants to be loved and respected. You want it, right? And men also want to have a devoted, sincerely loving woman next to them. Nobody wants to be exploited, used, humiliated. Everyone wants warmth and love. Real love- it is always mutual, I do not believe in one-sidedness, when one of the partners truly loves, and the other allows himself to be loved or “loves” a little. It's anything but love, it's fake.
It is not so easy to find a person who will truly love, it is even more difficult to love yourself and accept a person as he is, completely.
In our difficult time with its frantic rhythm of life, when a person does not have time to think and he is only able to absorb information, all this affects the value system. This applies to both men and women. But especially men. Imagine that from every second advertising poster a half-naked beauty looks at them, smiling invitingly and calling for them. It's hard to resist! This is in our country, where not so long ago "there was no sex."
It is always easier for a man to choose a woman if she matches his wealth and lifestyle. The majority of ordinary representatives of the stronger sex "unearthly beauty" and superpopularity inspire a certain fear and desire to stand on the sidelines. After all, a beautiful woman needs a BEAUTIFUL LIFE! And the more beautiful a woman is, the more beautiful life should be. But not everyone can afford it.
And nevertheless, when choosing whom to meet from a catalog in an agency or, a man first of all pays attention to:
1. Appearance
Moreover, our compatriots and foreigners sometimes like different types. The latter are more inclined towards blonde long-haired beauties (like Barbie). If you marry, then the queen! So that everyone around is jealous. And what will the neighbors say ?!
But no one wants to have a kept woman next to him, of course, if we are talking about a real family, with all the ensuing consequences (everyday life, birth and raising children), and not about such a widespread form of "daddy - daughter" relationship.
2. Inner world, energy
Any woman fills the space with her thoughts, feelings and deeds. When we prepare food, the quality and taste of the prepared dish largely depends on our mood. By the way, my advice: when a man asks you how well you cook, tell him (even if you are lying) that this is your favorite pastime - and it is half yours! They ask not to put you directly to the stove, but to determine how good a housewife you will be for a big house!
CONCLUSIONS:
So, men want to see next to them:
1. The girl is about 5 years younger. This is at least!
2. Attractive. Not necessarily a perfect beauty. Men are often afraid of beautiful women. They think that difficulties in family life will arise with a beauty (rivals, infidelities, etc.), but difficulties of various kinds may arise with the most ordinary girl. More often than not, it happens in life, "from whom you do not expect" is called.
3. Socially organized. Now in honor of independent, "promising" girls who have a good job, all the benefits arising from it and an active life position.
4. Sharing his interests. It is very important that your hobbies are similar. At least partially. Because if a lot of your value system does not coincide, you are simply “different people” and you will not be interested in being together. If he loves animals very much, and you cannot stand them, this will become a serious barrier to the relationship.
5. Healthy. Every normal man wants to see a healthy girl next to him, capable of giving birth to full-fledged children and prolonging his family. For some reason, men believe that the genetic background of the unborn child is 80% dependent on the woman, this is not so, but it is difficult to convince them of this.
6. Educated. To have something to talk about, consult. The man is the head, and the woman is the neck in the family.
7. Loving and caring. Able to understand, and if necessary and to forgive... The man does not want to "fight" in the family, he has enough battles outside the threshold of his home. True, at home he wants to rest and relax.
8. Just "his" woman who he likes. Because all of the above does not matter if there is no "chemistry".
What do you need to do to please a real man?
1. Maintain human dignity and choose the right man. You can't go against nature. And the genetic memory of a man is laid down: he is a hunter, he must achieve his goal, otherwise it will not be interesting to him and will not have value.
2. Do not sit idly by, work, improve, and everything will work out. You are no longer that small, scared child cornered by circumstances. We will leave all the bad in the past, we must move on, live here and now, there will be no other approach.
3. Be confident, become selfish, love yourself. Soon you will notice that those around you have begun to treat you differently ... Keeping yourself in excellent physical shape while being very busy is work! This requires strength, desire and money, finally. It is much easier and calmer to lie on the couch and scold yourself and those around you that life is passing by, and you, such a good one, are deservedly appreciated by none of the men.
4. The most important thing is not to give up and move forward towards your goal. And fate will definitely come, we will help her, because thoughts are material!
In this article, we will analyze in detail all the components of the appearance of a modern woman that men like so much, we will determine why these parameters attract everyone, without exception. Let us also find out what character the ideal woman possesses in the opinion of representatives of the opposite sex. I will share recommendations that will help you at any age to be attractive and draw the attention of men to yourself. You will get rid of bad habits and learn to develop those character traits that will please any man.
Outer beauty
Despite the fact that we live with you in the 21st century, many actions of people can still be explained only by primitive instincts. Thus, the concept of beauty for men is subconsciously associated with a woman's ability to reproduce offspring, the ability to breastfeed and take care of children.
To be liked by men, you need to be a self-confident woman, and most importantly.
It is on the basis of the instinctive necessity of procreation that men more often choose young healthy women. Or they give preference to a woman who closely monitors her appearance and, thanks to this, looks healthy and young.
It turns out that a beautiful woman in the eyes of any man looks like this:
- Average body weight. Not being thin, which allows a woman to give birth to a child and at the same time not very full, so that she can take care of children and cope with household chores.
- Bright lips, long black eyelashes, radiant smooth skin, blush, shiny strong hair, strong nails. All these are signs of a healthy woman.
- Hair of light tones. Such shades indicate a sufficient content of the hormone estrogen in the woman's blood, which helps in the processes of conceiving and carrying a child.
- Athletic figure and energetic behavior, which is also a sign of high reproductive capacity.
- Symmetrical face. This sign is a confirmation of the youth of its owner, since over the years the face becomes less symmetrical and no longer so attractive.
- Large hips. Wide hips allow unhindered childbirth, and the fat contained in this part of the body contributes to the successful establishment of the lactation process.
Additional Information. Men love in women everything that differs from their structure. Therefore, long hair, smooth skin, breasts, thighs are the main weapons of any woman.
What men like about women
In addition to the healthy appearance, which we examined earlier, men certainly pay attention to the character traits and habits of a woman. What do men like so much?
- Femininity. This is the first and most important point that contains several qualities. This concept can be interpreted in different ways, but most often femininity is associated with softness, kindness, tenderness, defenselessness. For example, meditation can help you reveal your femininity. Also try to entrust all decisions to a man and your natural femininity will manifest itself.
- Sincerity. Don't pretend to be stupid or voice someone else's more attractive opinion, be yourself. To do this, communicate with several men at once, so you will have the opportunity to choose. You will stop obsessing about doing something wrong and behave naturally. Men will see that you are an interesting conversationalist and will give their preference to you.
- Positive attitude towards life. No one needs an unhappy woman with her problems, no matter how sad it sounds. Only such feelings can bring positive into life. Therefore, add positive emotions to it: take up dancing, find a fascinating hobby (amigurumi, making cuffs, mehendi, etc.), learn to drive, meet your friends and loved ones more often. Men will want to connect with you to get positive energy.
Advice. To develop a positive attitude towards life, surround yourself with optimists and practice more often the game, the essence of which is finding positive in negative situations. For example, you missed the bus, but you will take a walk: enjoy the good weather, listen to your favorite music and stretch your legs before the start of the working day. Over time, you will not even notice how a seemingly unpleasant situation becomes beneficial for you.
- Mystery. Do not tell everything about what you think, what you are doing, where you are going. A man will be curious to recognize you, do not deprive him of this pleasure.
- The ability to feel your partner. In situations where it is difficult for a representative of the stronger sex, only a true woman can support him. Someone needs an encouraging word, but with someone it is better to be silent, someone needs to be hugged, and some men are better left alone with their thoughts. Monitor the emotions of the person next to you so that they always feel comfortable.
- Ability to be grateful to him. This is especially true for everyday issues if you already live together. Many of a man's daily duties, such as taking out the trash, going to the grocery store, making tea, etc. begin to be taken for granted by a woman. This devalues the importance of a man in your life, and over time, his interest fades.
- Individuality. Develop, read more multidirectional literature, try new things to find what you really like. So you will create your own unique style that will pique men's interest.
How to please men
Earlier, we found out that youth and a healthy appearance are liked by all men. Check out a few tips below to help you create and maintain that look:
- Use skin scrubs. So you renew her and make her look younger.
- Be sure to remove makeup before bed. Remains of dirt at night gradually turn the complexion gray, and the skin fades.
- Use hair masks to add shine and shine to your hair.
- Remember to keep your skin moisturized and drink plenty of fluids throughout the day.
- Go in for sports. During physical activity, the body produces a special protein that stimulates the development of neurons. This renews the entire body: muscles become more elastic, thoughts become clear. The woman becomes happier, which, of course, is reflected in her appearance.
Note. Men subconsciously choose women with good appetite, this is associated with health. Therefore, try not to harass yourself with diets, at least in the presence of a partner.
But not only appearance requires care and attention on your part. Youth is not eternal, which is why special attention should be paid to your inner component:
- Ask a man to help you with issues that you previously dealt with on your own. For example, carry a heavy pile of papers, move the table, take out the trash, etc. Thus, you will demonstrate your vulnerability, which is a manifestation of femininity.
- Listen to yourself, develop your intuition. Meditation will help you with this, since in a relaxed state the mind turns off, and you learn to listen to yourself. In any situation, intuition first works, and then the brain turns on. Pay attention to the first sensation, then you will not be mistaken. A man will like it when he is understood without words.
- Surprise and pamper him. Prepare an unusual meal, arrange an unforgettable date on the rooftop, for example, have a relaxing massage, buy something he dreams of. He will definitely like new sensations.
- Appreciate every little thing he does for you and thank you for it. This will emphasize the importance of the man.
- Go to Spanish lessons, do scrapbooking, try soap making. Do you like to travel? Then conquer several new countries. Become interesting first of all for yourself, then the man will discern individuality in you.
Learn more about 5 important feminine qualities that all people love in this video. It contains advice from relationship expert Nadezhda Mayer to help you avoid misunderstandings in relationships.
What turns men off
We have already figured out what attracts men. But, at the same time, it is important to pay attention to what exactly repels them.
- Self-doubt. When a woman is not sure about her appearance, she constantly complains about nature, which gave her the wrong figure, eyelashes, legs, etc. Men do not like this, since they, too, begin to notice these flaws in a woman's appearance. Instead, learn to enjoy each new day, appreciate your natural qualities. If your partner is in love, then believe me, least of all he pays attention to your imperfections.
- Selfishness. Do not forget that for a man a woman is the future mother of his children, who must certainly be able to take care of others.
- The presence of bad habits. A woman who smokes or drinks will not be able to give birth to healthy offspring. And if she is used to speaking obscenely, then she is unlikely to teach her children anything good.
If you want to be liked by men, but you have one of the disadvantages listed above, then first of all you need to try to get rid of them. Note and highlight only your merits, then the people around you will begin to notice them.
Stop dwelling on yourself, help your colleague, neighbor, show concern for others and life will sparkle for you with new colors.
If you have bad habits, then give up them, replace them with something useful and enjoyable. For example, replace cigarettes with swimming, alcohol with freshly squeezed juices.
Additionally, watch this video from practical psychologist Nadezhda Mayer and you will find out 5 topics that should never be touched upon in a conversation with a man at any stage of a relationship.
Answers on questions
I do not wear skirts and heels, I prefer a sporty style of clothing. Can a man like me?
You will like it if at the same time you look neat, take care of yourself, and most importantly behave naturally. Femininity manifests itself regardless of the style of clothing. You are much less likely to be liked by a man if you choose heels, but you cannot walk in them normally.
How to please a man if he is older?
The principles described in the article apply to all ages. Follow these tips and the man will definitely set you apart from the crowd.
What do men like more modesty or relaxedness in women?
According to statistics, it is easier for men to meet and communicate with relaxed women, but based on the instincts of preserving their family, they prefer to create marriages with modest women. What should you choose? Measure is good in everything. Behave with restraint in the company of people, and alone with your beloved man you can afford to be liberated.
What to remember:
- Men primarily like women, who they associate with the concept of a mother. The fairer sex must have all physical and mental qualities in order to give birth to healthy offspring and provide children with a decent upbringing.
- Outwardly, a man will give preference to a woman who looks after her health and maintains her natural beauty. Use modern cosmetics to highlight your strengths and hide flaws. For example, give your skin a shine, your hair shine, and your cheeks blush.
- Keep fit, exercise regularly. This will help you stay in good physical shape at all times. Choose clothes that accentuate your waist, chest, and hips.
- Engage in self-development, try to learn as much new and exciting as possible. Become interesting to yourself, and members of the opposite sex will also show you attention.
- Give up bad habits such as smoking, alcohol, and replace them with exercise and healthy foods.
- Develop in yourself the femininity that is given by nature. Allow yourself to be soft and defenseless, and let the man take care of you.
- A smile charms men, so let it adorn your face as often as possible.
Going to reflect on the topic: "What women do men like?", I thought, why not ask the men themselves? “Eh, I would like to arrange a survey of at least a hundred people,” I thought. My friend, having learned that I really need to know the man's opinion on this extremely important issue, told me: “Why do you need a hundred people? Believe me, all men are arranged about the same and the requirements for women in the overwhelming majority of them are also very similar. I can tell you everything in the best possible way! " And I thought, why not? What came of this - I bring to your attention. I want to warn you in advance - it is quite possible that your chosen one has completely different views on the relationship between a woman and a man. I ask you to treat everything that you read as a purely subjective point of view of an individual man (not devoid of common sense, however)!
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to the table of contentsAttitude to coquetry with other men
Of course, this is not about kissing and hugging another man. Speaking of "coquetry", men, it turns out, mean ordinary communication, conversations, new acquaintances, slow dancing at parties. Well, they do not believe in friendship "woman - man"! Well, maybe men are really right about something? This is just friendship for us. And for them - potential sexual relations, it is not for nothing that they do not believe in such a "friendship"!
Will your chosen one like this kind of friendship? Even if she is long-term, strong, reliable, I assure you, modern men in this regard are no different from their primitive ancestors - a woman is either mine, or not mine !!!
Men love it when we act like there are no other males. We do not drive together in cars. We do not flirt at corporate parties. We do not dance slow pair dances. We do not post photos in swimsuits on social networks. We do not dance striptease in a disco. And in general, with all our behavior we constantly prove that he is the only Man in this world. And men take this very seriously, suffice it to say that my friend put this "like" in the first place.
Analyze if you and your friend had small disagreements about your too close relationship (in his opinion) with any of your friends? If you were, think about where you were wrong and try not to make any more missteps!
to the table of contentsInterest in the inner world of a man
As the majority of women think: “What does he do? Yes, something complicated, boring and uninteresting. The main thing is that he earns money, and that's enough! "
This point of view is deeply mistaken. For any man, his work, career growth, hobbies and so on are very important, and very often, especially in his youth, they are even more important than a woman or family. It is difficult to compete with this, and it is not necessary.
Men really like it when we show a genuine interest in their affairs, we are interested in their hobbies, events at work. Note - it is genuine! "I was offered a raise here, after all, the salary is higher, should I agree?" He asks. “Agree,” the woman replies mechanically, without looking up from her favorite series. “But this is more responsibility,” he tries to involve him in a discussion about his daily life. “Then disagree,” she replies in the same mechanical way. And that's all, the conversation can be ended, and it is so clear that she is indifferent to his affairs, but it was very important for him to hear her opinion!
Is your companion addicted to something? Find out more about his addictions, his favorite pastimes. Now the endless expanses of the Internet provide the same endless opportunities in terms of studying any subject to the subtleties. I’ll say right away - you don’t need to subtlety. General knowledge will be enough, but by showing some knowledge of what your friend is interested in, you will get a brilliant opportunity to learn much more. From whom? Yes, from himself, he will with great pleasure tell you about his hobby with all the details, devote it to all the secrets. And who knows, maybe you too will be fond of, say, fishing or modeling? If your goal is to keep this particular man, you will have to try!
Try to remember the main points that occupy an important place in his life - the birthday of his parents, his habits. Is it difficult to remember everything at once? Keep a little secret diary and record the main points in it. Then it will be very easy to restore everything in memory! In addition to the fact that your man will really like it, such awareness of his affairs will make an indelible impression on his friends and relatives.
to the table of contentsThey like it when we can forgive
Men do not like very much when a woman is too touchy, remembers unpleasant episodes for a long time, and especially when she constantly reminds of it. “She must be able to forgive,” my friend put it this way. It should be noted here that the ability to forgive is attractive in both women and men. Nagging and constant reminders of what happened to someone else can bring anyone to a nervous breakdown. But men put a slightly different meaning in the concept of “forgive”.
Remember, we already said that women are contraindicated to flirt with other men? But it turns out that it is very permissible for men to do this with other women, and if something has gone “too much”, we must forgive! His attention to you is regarded in the same way - it is about his "especially successful hunt the year before last" you need to remember day and night, and the fact that he forgot about your birthday should be forgiven.
What can you say here? Let's be indulgent to men! As you can see, they need much more attention than we do, they are more vulnerable, more touchy. Be prepared to compromise and forgive his transgressions.
to the table of contentsMen like to "conquer" a woman
Yes, I was not mistaken in putting the word "conquer" in quotation marks! Men still consider themselves hunters deep down in their hearts, they need to prove themselves conquerors of women's hearts, seeking our favor. But we know that they do it, having previously received approval from a woman. How?
A turn of the head, a smile, a look that speaks volumes without words, alluring gestures - and now he already knows that getting to know this girl will not be in vain. Approaching and getting to know her, he does not know that the nets are already spread out and the real hunter is not him at all! Of course, I didn't talk about this to my friend, let him consider himself as a conqueror as before. I also strongly advise you to NEVER tell afterwards who the real initiative came from!
This is about dating. In the future, men like it when a woman does not show excessive importunity and does not "run" after them. There is no need to force the relationship, show excessive persistence. This has a frightening effect on men, most often such a romance is doomed. If you want to "push" him to take decisive action, then everything needs to be arranged as if he himself decided on the further development of events. Act thinner, more delicate, remember - men are very vulnerable!
to the table of contentsThey like it when a woman is disinterested.
The richer a man, the more complexes he has about the fact that any woman wants to "cheat him for money." He can take you to expensive restaurants, buy expensive jewelry and things, but you can never be completely sure that he completely trusts you and is ready to build a long-term relationship. Therefore, it is always better to play it safe a little and immediately limit his spending, no matter how much you want to "boo". Be careful about the money issue, do not cross the line where gifts turn into a purchase.
Decide for yourself what you want - if love, marriage, a happy family life, then be careful with his money. Hint to him that if he really wants to give you an expensive gift, then it can be some kind of noble deed or helping someone. So your chosen one will once again be convinced of your kindness and your desire not to waste his money, but to spend it with great benefit.
to the table of contentsSelf-respecting woman
This can be done in the only way - do not allow a man to behave unworthy, rude or disrespectful. "Nip in the bud!" - as my friend said, and I think he is right. If at the very beginning of the relationship you do not pull the man down when he begins to be rude, to speak rudely, to behave too cheekily, then in the future this behavior will be repeated more and more often. Do you need it?
Force yourself to be respected, show your dignity (just by "suppressing" unworthy behavior), show that you have the right to your own opinion, demonstrate your decency. And then afterwards everything will return to you a hundredfold!
Of course, all of the listed "likes" mentioned by my friend in our conversation, relate only to the character, behavior of a woman, female appearance - the subject of a separate conversation.
to the table of contentsHow to gain admiration from men
But why don't we embrace these male clues? I am sure that this will help us not to repeat the mistakes of others and make our relationships with men much more pleasant!