Real seducers and seducers, before whom no one can resist, will never act directly, vulgarly, persistently seeking to seduce ... They prefer intellectual seduction (English alert), act softly and unobtrusively; know 3 basic commandments of real seducers, wise and always desirable: adhere to style; be confident in yourself; use body language.
But today we would like to dwell on the intellectual aspect of this art. We bring to your attention a collection of carefully selected phrases that no one can resist, and if they do, they will surely melt. Use them for the right ones!
English vocabulary on dating and communication
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Top 30 seduction phrases
Before you read the following phrases, we would like to remind you of an important element in a relationship, sincerity. We are sure that there are people worthy of your attention next to you. If you also think so, then your compliments will never look empty and
fake.
It's another matter when the acquaintance is just beginning. Not everyone is aware that men, for example, have a much better intuition than women often assume, and they are quite capable of distinguishing when they are told the truth and when they are cunning.
Last night I looked up at the stars and named a reason why I love you for each one. I was doing great until I ran out of stars.
Last night I looked at the stars in the sky and each one named the reason why I love you. I did great until the stars ran out.
Life without you is like a broken pencil: pointless.
Life without you is like a broken pencil, meaningless. ("Pointless" - dull, unsharpened (about a broken pencil)).
Passion can drive you crazy, but is there any other way to live?
Passion can drive you crazy, but is there any other way to live?
You are my best friend, my shoulder to lean on, the one person I know I can count on; you’re the love of my life, you’re my one and only, you’re my everything.
You are my best friend, my support shoulder, the one I can count on, you are the love of my life, the one and only, you are my everything.
Whatever our souls are made of, yours and mine are the same.
Why would our souls be made - yours and mine are the same.
Are you Google? You’ve got everything I’ve been searching for!
Are you "Google"? You have everything that I was looking for!
You are my North, South, my East and West, my working week and my Sunday rest.
You are my north, south, east and west, my work week and Sunday rest.
Before I met you, I never knew what it was like to smile for no reason.
Before I met you, I didn't know what it means to smile for no reason.
Your parents are thieves because they stole all the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.
Your parents are thieves because they stole all the stars from the sky and transferred them into your eyes.
I could walk forever and a day with you.
I could walk by your side forever.
If I died and God asked me what I’d like to come back as, I’d say a tear; so I can beborn in your eyes, roll down your cheek, and die on your lips.
If I died and God asked me who I would like to be reborn, I would answer: "With a tear." So that I can be born in your eyes, slide down your cheek and die on your lips.
You are my religion. I would die for you.
You are my religion. I would give my life for you.
My love for you is like a circle - it has no beginning and will know of no end.
My love for you is like a ring - it has no beginning and no end.
I love you more than yesterday but less than tomorrow.
I love you more than yesterday, but less than tomorrow.
I was one of those women who believed that all men were equal, but it was enough to meet you and share some moments with you to realize that I was very wrong because you are unique.
I was one of those women who believed that all men are the same, but it was enough for me to just meet you and share moments with you to realize that I was far from the truth, because you are unique.
No day can be perfect if I have not had the opportunity to have been even at your side for a moment, exchanging some words and contemplating those beautiful eyes that you have.
Not a single day can be considered ideal if I did not have the opportunity to be with you at least a little, to exchange a few words, contemplating your beautiful eyes.
I lived in a world full of sadness and darkness until you appeared in my life, illuminating everything with your light, and since then I look forward to your company because that "s when my happiness becomes complete.
I lived in a world full of sadness and darkness until you appeared in my life, illuminating everything with your radiance, and since then I strive to be with you, because that's when my happiness becomes complete.
While you have not yet gone headlong into your fantasies and started thinking about which phrase to surprise your loved ones with, we want to draw your attention to the main part of today's article.
In the video below, a writer, dancer and master of seduction, Chen Lizra, shares her experience with us. She will tell us about the main components of the art of seduction and charm.
The following simple but sweet suggestions may be appropriate later in the relationship. Any conversation will become much more pleasant if you use one (or several) of the following phrases in it.
"What can I do right now to bring a smile to your face?"
"What can I do now to bring a smile back to your face?"
When a woman is feeling upset, overwhelmed, or simply tired, she deeply appreciates that her man not only notices, but offers everything she needs to fix the situation. Most women want to please their man, thinking in advance about
which will make him happy, but rarely feel reciprocated in return. They believe that there is a double standard here, and fear that they could lose their man if they cannot maintain control over the situation.
You can kill three (!) Birds with one stone at once, putting aside your current desires and becoming fully available to express your love when a woman needs it so much. By verbally admitting how much she deserves to be concerned, a man shows that he understands and loves her when it really matters. The ability to be valuable to someone without selfish goals is a gift for years to come.
"I know my long stories can drive you crazy, so I’ll start with the bottom line and you can ask for more details if you need them".
“I know my long stories can drive you crazy, so I'll start with the basics and you can refine the details if necessary.”
Sometimes women can get confused and sound rather oblique when they want something or are "exchanging their experiences". Then it makes sense to work on developing a more direct approach that does not keep you waiting, and try to give an answer that directly, without unnecessary "decor", answers the man's question.
Women understand that it is much easier and more pleasant for men to listen to some topics. For example, dissatisfaction with a man's behavior in a relationship should be expressed in the most succinct way: complaint, context, feeling and desired outcome. Interesting stories, in turn, directly related to the life of men, deserve, of course, a longer period of time for discussion.
"Even if we lost everything, I’d still have you, and that’s what matters the most."
"Even if we lose everything, I will still have you, and that is the most important thing."
Many men believe that if they do not provide, do not protect or do not curry favor with their women, then by principle they cannot be considered representatives of the strong half of humanity in full. If they get sick, lose their jobs, or are not around at critical times, they may feel neglected about their commitments. Men who know they are deeply loved and appreciated do not get stuck on what they should do or who they should be. They are grateful to their women for the fact that they do not need to adjust and always show themselves, no matter what position they are in and how they feel.
"I love you even when you're upset."
"I love you even when you're upset."
Many men often pull back when their ladies are in turmoil. They don't want any part of an angry or complaining woman to ruin their mood. As a result, many women give up their bad moods for fear of losing their love in
which they so need in difficult times. A man’s assurances that a woman’s suffering will not alienate him or make him colder in a relationship lead her to believe that she is loved, regardless of her condition.
This behavior, however, is not always appropriate, for example, when a woman views the above assurances from a man as an attempt to minimize or get rid of the problem. Otherwise, it is a wonderful experience when, instead of criticism, she gets support.
"Take all the time you need to get your thoughts and feelings out. I'm not goinganywhere."
“You have as much time as it takes to express your thoughts and feelings. I'm not going anywhere. "
Women tend to express their feelings out loud. And when it is not possible to do this, they begin to scroll through a bunch of thoughts in their heads. These thoughts sometimes lead them to deplorable conclusions. Impatient men, in turn, can often interrupt a fragile female monologue at an early stage and demand a summary or simply lose interest in the topic. Women feel welcome with those who will remain with them, while at the same time listening to them, no matter how long it takes. This can be a precious gift for them.
"I feel the safest when you're near me."
"I feel safe when you are near me."
Men tend to want their women to feel safe, valued, and not overly interested. If women are too dependent on them and need constant reassurance, then men may feel burdened or irritable. But when a woman does not need much attention or care, then a man can freely open up and feel a connection. Most men want to protect their women when they can and feel proud about that.
Phrases to start a conversation
Finally, we present to your attention a few phrases with which it is good to start phrases while in a relationship.
"I understand how important this is to you."
I understand how important this is to you.
Women judge relationships by how well they think you understand them. And one way of expressing understanding is not to take action every time the slightest worry is shown. A lot of men do just that. Look, here "s how we can fix it! Instead, just listen and say that you understand the cause of the concern (even if you disagree.) Listening and understanding is a powerful indicator of how much you respect the person.
"Let me tell you how my presentation went."
Let me tell you how my presentation went.
When they ask you how your day went, no one wants to hear the answer: “It's okay. Is yours?". Details are needed here, not key information. To increase efficiency, sort it out in terms of your emotional responses: "I was so nervous when they didn't take my offer, but then I felt relieved when they realized I was right after all."
"Let "s talk about the work tomorrow. Tonight should just be about us."
Let's talk about work tomorrow. Tonight should only be about us.
Focus on each other as much as possible, and it doesn't matter if it leads to something concrete or not. Avoid dragging sore topics of conversation with you, especially if you are already sitting on the couch together. After all, these are some of the most important moments in a relationship.
"I "ll draw you a bath."
I'll give you a bath.
A great way to unwind after a hard day. And it's so nice when a loved one offers his help in such undertakings.
"You deserve a perfect weekend with your friends. I "ll take care of everything."
You deserve a great weekend with your friends. I'll take care of everything.
"I adore your moles."
I love your moles.
To feel beautiful, you need to feel the beauty within yourself. It is important. It is important to hear the words of loved ones who notice small details, be it your appearance or character traits, those that may have seemed ugly to you, and embarrassed you.
"The weather "s just terrible! Let me pick up the groceries."
The weather is just awful! Let me stop by for some groceries.
It is not always necessary to do everything according to the established schedule. It's so easy to do something nice - just offer spontaneous help.
Conclusion
You are now one step closer to the perfect relationship. Use the right phrases and words with meaning and be gentle and gentle with your loved ones.
Don "t forget to surprise them with your attitude and your English!
Big and friendly family EnglishDom
Speaking in public can be stressful. In order not to worry in vain and to know that your speech can be effective and confident, use specific phrases. They will ensure that you come across as an excellent speaker. So which expressions should you use for one purpose or another?
For people to remember an important thought
No matter how great a speaker you are, people won't remember everything you say anyway. Therefore, it is so important to be able to emphasize the points that the audience needs to remember first. This is a kind of bookmark with which you attract attention. Use the phrase: "There is only one thing to remember, and that ...". These phrases work perfectly and help listeners remember exactly the parts of your speech that are needed. 
To prove your idea
If you want any idea of yours to sound convincing, support it with three examples. According to some studies, only three to five themes are retained in a person's memory, moreover, even this number is too large. As a result, we can say that three is the ideal, most effective number. 
This is very logical, because one example will seem like too modest confirmation, and five is already too much. Stick to a light-hearted tone of conversation - you're not writing an essay. A calm and light voice, listing convincing examples, will make the maximum impression. 
To highlight your point of view
If you want to emphasize your point of view, back it up with a few repetitions. Repetitions help people remember what you said. Here, too, you can use the rule of the number "three". The repetition of a phrase can be located at the beginning or end of a sentence, just choose the appropriate expression format and supplement it with your thought. 
You can also use the tactic of moving parts of a sentence - it works convincingly and effectively. An example is the phrase: "Don't ask what the country can do for you, ask what you can do for the country." By building sentences in this way, you will achieve your goal without difficulty. 
To highlight the changing theme
Always signal that you have finished covering the previous topic and move on to the next. If you use a phrase that indicates a change in topic, listeners will notice the transition more closely. The exact choice of words is not critical, the main thing is for the audience to understand that the previous topic is over. For such phrases, functionality turns out to be much more significant than their verbal design. You can safely come up with your own wording, the main thing is to use it. 
To grab the audience's attention
Try to tell a story. You can even start with the most familiar phrases like "Once it happened to me ..." - personal stories always attract people's attention more than dry facts. People may forget the exact statistics, not pay attention to the graphs that you show, but they will definitely remember the story from your biography. This type of story is the easiest to remember because it relates to everyday life. 
Such phrases are familiar, so they are not forgotten. Present the facts of interest with a compelling story, use the data for an interesting story. The stories in which you managed to win in a critical situation sound especially advantageous. If this story has nothing to do with your topic, think of another good version of the story. The main thing is compliance with the idea of your speech and a dynamic plot. 
To connect with the audience
Try to use the pronoun "I" as little as possible. A performance works best when it is not dedicated to one person, but directed towards the audience. When you talk about others, you are better at connecting with your audience. Try to talk less about yourself. Instead of listing your own successes, talk about team accomplishments or share a joint project without focusing on your personal contributions. By replacing "me" with "we", you get the maximum response from the audience and make people like it. 
To show that you will soon finish your speech
Emphasize that you will finish speaking soon. This will help your listeners, and it will also draw their attention to the latest phrases to address the topics that matter most to you. The phrase "In conclusion ..." is very powerful. She indicates that the speech will be over in a couple of minutes and emphasizes the key messages of your message. People immediately begin to listen more attentively. Be sure to use end-of-the-line phrases if you want to impress those around you as an experienced and successful speaker.
Quite often, one particularly memorable phrase can become the quintessence of the entire plot, the author's intent and the nature of the film in which it sounded. As a rule, such phrases become an integral part not only of the history of cinema, but also of the life of the audience.
We bring to your attention the 50 best phrases that have become classics and are firmly entrenched in the minds of a huge number of people:
1. I'll be back.
Terminator, 1984
2. Honestly, my dear, I don't give a damn.
Gone with the Wind, 1939
3. I will make him an offer that he cannot refuse.
The Godfather, 1972
4. Hasta la vista, baby!
Terminator 2: Judgment Day, 1991
5. May the Force be with you.
Star Wars, 1977-2005
6. I had two heart attacks and had to have an abortion because I used heroin during my pregnancy. Otherwise, I'm fine.
"Amelie", 2001
7. In Hollywood, women have three ages: "baby", the district attorney and crazy Miss Daisy.
First Wives Club, 1996
8. Greed, in the absence of a suitable word, is good.
Wall Street, 1989
9. I had an old friend for dinner. I ate his liver with beans and a glass of Chianti.
Silence of the Lambs, 1991
10. My darling!
"The Lord of the Rings", 2001-2003
11. Fasten your seat belts, there will be a stormy night.
"All About Eve", 1950
12. I'll think about it tomorrow.
Gone with the Wind, 1939
13. Choose life. Choose the future. Choose a career. Choose a family. I chose something else.
Trainspotting, 1996
14. Elementary, Watson!
Sherlock Holmes and Dr. Watson, 1979-1983
15. Do you want to arrest me for smoking?
Basic Instinct, 1992
16. Life is like a box of chocolates: you never know what filling you will get.
Forrest Gump, 1994
17. My name is Bond. James Bond.
Any Bond movie from Doctor No (1962) to Casino Royale (2006)
18. Nobody kills anyone in my store. Just me and Zed. And here is Zed.
"Pulp Fiction", 1994
19. - How do you like the boots?
- Very defiant, I would not take such.
- So, good boots, we must take.
Office Romance, 1977
20. - You said that you never cheated on your husband.
- I said that I never cheated on him in Paris.
Emmanuel, 1974
21. Don't teach me how to live, better help me financially.
"Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears", 1979
22. Self-improvement - masturbation. Self-destruction is what really matters.
"Fight Club", 1999
23. Sushi. That's what my wife called me. Cold as a fish.
Blade Runner, 1982
24. You turn me on, baby.
Austin Powers, 1997
25. I have never drank champagne before breakfast. It happened at breakfast. But never before.
Breakfast at Tiffany's, 1961
26. You shoot as badly as you cook.
"Mr. and Mrs. Smith", 2005
27. How can a woman remain attractive and not starve to death ?!
Tootsie, 1982
28. The lord appointed me his beloved wife!
"White Sun of the Desert", 1969
29. Look at me, I masturbate in the shower - this will be the high point of my day. Then everything will only get worse.
American Beauty, 1999
30. I can not imagine anything sexier than a naked girl with a gun.
9 yards, 2000
31. Every day is important
Titanic, 1997
32. I now think that strength is in truth: whoever has truth is stronger!
"Brother", 1997
33. Sometimes your whole life comes down to one crazy act.
Avatar, 2009
34. Happiness makes sense only when you have someone to share it with.
Into the Wild, 2007
35. I was drunk, my behavior was unworthy of a Soviet officer!
Assa, 1987
36. I smoke dope, chase balloons, the last 15 years my career has not taken off.
The Big Lebowski, 1998
37. It is a tradition: when another child is born in the house, one of the children must die.
The Addams Family Moral, 1993
38. I demand the continuation of the banquet!
"Ivan Vasilievich changes his profession", 1973
39. If you can steal an idea from someone's head, then you can put it there.
"Beginning", 2010
40. You may not be ready for this kind of music yet, but your kids will love it.
"Back to the Future!", 1985
41. There is no spoon.
"The Matrix", 1999
42. Stole, drank - to prison. Stole it, drank it - to jail. Romance…
Gentlemen of Fortune, 1971
43. Whoever said that orange is the new pink is seriously ill.
Legally Blonde, 2003
44. - Daniel, what you have done now is illegal in several countries.
“That’s why I’m happy to be living in Britain.
Bridget Jones's Diary, 2004
45. - Will you declare anything, sir?
- Yes. To England - not a foot!
"Big jackpot", 2000
46. The magician doesn't come late, Frodo Baggins, and neither does it early. He appears when needed.
The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring, 2001
47. I don't know who I am, but I probably have a lawyer.
Overboard, 1987
48. Avada Kedavra!
Harry Potter, 2001-2011
49. Each passing minute is another chance to change everything.
Vanilla Sky, 2001
50. Carpe diem. Seize the moment, boys. Make your life extraordinary.
Dead Poets Society, 1989
If you have your own versions of the best phrases, the list can be continued in the comments. ;)